Family, Surrogacy

What I needed to hear today…..

A wonderful friend shared this with me today. It was seriously exactly what I needed to hear and it really hit home!

“Let whatever you do today be enough!! Let go of the judgement you have about what you should be or could be doing, and today, allow yourself to simply be.

Comparing yourself and your journey may be habitual, but it gets you nowhere. It makes you feel worse and it keeps you STUCK. So stop fixating on where everyone else is, and start giving yourself permission to be exactly where you are.

Quiet the voice telling you to do more and be more, and trust that in this moment, who you are, where you are at, and what you are doing is ENOUGH.

You will get to where you NEED to be in YOUR OWN TIME. Until then, breathe! Breathe and be patient with yourself and you process. You are doing the best you can to cope and survive amid all of your struggles and pain, and that’s all you can ask of yourself.

It’s enough. You are enough.”

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2 thoughts on “What I needed to hear today…..”

  1. This is so true. I have 2 therapists, yes it takes 2 to keep me in control. LOL anyway, these 2 therapists are always preaching this exactly,to me. It is so true. Just be in the moment, one moment at a time and breathe, just be………………………….it’s okay to just be. This mindset really does help! Thanks for sharing. I look forward to following your blog. Take care. 🙂

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